Returning to IC Leadership
Re-learning technical influence and collaboration through practice, not title.
Nessa Jane Marin
Software Engineer, Manager, Coach
A blog about what I'm doing on my computer...
What I’m tending now
A few ideas and projects I’m actively working through.
I’m in a hands-on leadership season: returning to deep technical work while carrying what I learned from years of management. Right now I’m thinking about influence without authority, building sustainably with teams, and staying grounded as AI changes our craft.
AI, Humanity, and Creative Practice
Exploring how to stay human, empathetic, and creative as our tools evolve quickly.
Coaching Neurodivergent Tech Folks
Growing practical, compassionate support for engineers and managers who want to lead well.
Pathways
If you're here for something specific, start with one of these trails.
Engineering Craft
For engineers who care about thoughtful technical craft
Leadership in Practice
For leads navigating people, influence, and technical depth
Coaching & Growth
For neurodivergent tech folks focused on sustainable growth
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